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Starling at Nocatee Assisted Living & Memory Care

4.5 (54 reviews)

Ponte Vedra, FL

Assisted Living and Memory Care in Ponte Vedra, with spaces to feel at home and support for your next chapter.

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About this community

Starling at Nocatee Assisted Living & Memory Care is in Nocatee, Ponte Vedra, Florida, a master-planned community. It is across from Nocatee Splash Water Park and near Nocatee Town Center and other local amenities. The community offers assisted living and memory care, with support tailored to residents’ individual needs. Temporary respite stays are available for people who need additional help after surgery or rehabilitation, as well as for times when a family caregiver needs a break. Respite guests can use the services, activities and amenities offered to residents.

Assisted living accommodations include studio apartments measuring 371 to 437 square feet, one-bedroom apartments from 471 to 570 square feet, and two-bedroom apartments measuring 789 square feet. Memory care has 371-square-foot studios and 521-square-foot companion suites. Listed residence features include kitchenettes, walk-in showers with benches and grab bars, individual temperature controls, cable, Wi-Fi and emergency-call systems. The residences are described as pet-friendly.

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Assisted living includes individualized care plans and help from trained caregivers. Memory care takes place in a secure setting, with personalized programs and activities intended to encourage engagement. Care descriptions list assistance with bathing, dressing, grooming, continence, transfers and dining, along with scheduled and as-needed medication management. Other reported supports include blood-sugar checks and wound care; physical, occupational and speech therapy can be arranged through an outside provider. A third-party description reports nurses on site around the clock and visiting providers such as a geriatrician, podiatrist and dentist. Telehealth specialty consultations are also described, with a dedicated room for remote appointments.

Dining is described as restaurant-style, with three meals daily and an always-available menu. Therapeutic options include soft, puréed, low-sodium, gluten-free and carbohydrate-controlled meals. A bistro offers coffee, fruit and pastries between meals, and a private dining room can be reserved for family gatherings. Memory care has a family-style dining room, with contrasting plates and simplified menus among the reported dining features.

Daily activities listed include chair Tai Chi, brain games, virtual-reality travel, drum circles, watercolor workshops, Bible study, book club, trivia, card games and live music. Outings have included shopping, golf events, symphony performances and beach picnics. Memory-care programming is described as Montessori-inspired, with sensory activities, aromatherapy, pet therapy, music and movement, and adaptive cooking. Purposeful activity areas include a nursery, woodworking bench and vintage office desk. Families are reported to receive monthly care-plan updates and invitations to quarterly dementia-education workshops.

Shared spaces include a salon and spa, a fitness and wellness studio, an art studio, a library with a fireplace, a movie theater and screened lanais. Outdoor features include secured courtyards, raised garden beds, walking paths and a putting green. Listed practical services include housekeeping, personal laundry, maintenance and scheduled transportation within a 10-mile radius. Transportation is described for medical appointments, shopping and worship trips.

Starting at
$3,330/mo
Care options
2 available
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Community reviews
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Key amenities

Dining

Meal preparation and service

Pool & outdoor spaces

Garden

Fitness & wellness

Fitness programs

Housekeeping

Housekeeping and linen services

Transportation

Community operated transportation

Social activities

Community-sponsored activities

Staff & support

12-16 hour nursing

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  • 12-16 hour nursing
  • 24-hour call system
  • 24-hour supervision
  • Activities of daily living assistance
  • Air-conditioning
  • Assistance with bathing
  • Assistance with dressing
  • Assistance with transfers
  • Beauty salon
  • Cable
  • Community operated transportation
  • Community-sponsored activities
  • Computer center
  • Concierge services
  • Diabetes diet
  • Dining room
  • Fitness programs
  • Fitness room
  • Fully furnished
  • Gaming room
  • Garden
  • Housekeeping and linen services
  • Kitchenettes
  • Meal preparation and service
  • Medication management
  • Mental wellness program
  • Mild cognitive impairment
  • Move-in coordination
  • Outdoor space
  • Planned day trips
  • Private bathrooms
  • Resident-run activities
  • Restaurant-style dining
  • Scheduled daily activities
  • Small library
  • Special dietary restrictions
  • Specialized memory care programming
  • Telephone
  • Transportation arrangement
  • Transportation arrangement (non-medical)
  • Wellness center
  • Wifi

Care options available

Assisted Living

Support with everyday routines and personal care in a community setting.

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Memory Care

Specialized support for people living with Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia.

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“I visited this community last week and was really impressed. The staff were exceptionally friendly and helpful. The new Executive Director has made notable improvements already, and they are very lucky to have her. The memory care area stood out as being especially impressive and vibrant!”
Community review · 2025

Pricing & residences

Monthly rates starting at

$3,330 / month

Rates and availability can change. Ask the community for a personalized quote and details about included services.

Listed monthly residence rates
Residence Monthly rate
One bedroom $3,330
Two bedrooms $4,305
Studio $5,095
Shared room $5,495

Resident & family reviews

4.5 · 54 reviews

I visited this community last week and was really impressed. The staff were exceptionally friendly and helpful. The new Executive Director has made notable improvements already, and they are very lucky to have her. The memory care area stood out as being especially impressive and vibrant!

Starling is a beautiful community with so much to offer. Their care team is wonderful and the activities director helps to provide vibrant events to engage residents and families.

My mom moved there Oct 2023. Our family was very concerned that she would have trouble adjusting to such a big change. We looked a many places and we all agreed the minute we walked in the door that Starling was the one. It is beautiful and clean but most important the staff is wonderful as well as the other residents. My mom loves her apartment, always enjoys her meals and keeps busy with all the activities. My sister and I feel very blessed to have found such a great place for her to live.

More recent reviews

The five years our mom spent at Starling at Nocatee Assisted Living were amazing. And it's not just the beautiful building, but the exceptional staff that made it such a wonderful experience. We will be forever grateful she had the good fortune to spend her final days in such a loving environment.

They Truly don’t care for the patients just the money you give them, they have left patients in flooded rooms and roach infested rooms without notifying anyone.

My mom is in Starlight, the memory care wing here in Nocatee. The facility is beautiful. And, most importantly, the caregivers are compassionate and caring! They treat my mom with kindness and respect. It is such a relief to know, every day, that mom is safe and well taken care of. Lucy Dixon and her staff are angels.

Mom fell at 7 am twice hit her head in Memory care. Nurse contacted me 6.5 hours later said she fell once (Unsupervised) and that she was at the hospital (Alone) for observation. The doctors told me fell twice, and hit her head. She broke a bone in hip so they lied. When asked why I wasn't notified I was told by nurse, "I am too busy." Doctor said that mom need weight bearing exercises. Facility refused to get her up and told everyone she was bed ridden even though she could walk. I had to hire a care giver and PT to ensure she would get bathed and her hair washed and exercises. Also, there was active COVID and CDIFF Memory Care & did not quarantine the patients. There were allowed to sit at the table with mom. 2 of the workers were allowed to work with COVID because they "wore mask" and "weren't that bad." Days later, mom was sick. My caregiver notified 3 staff members, and med techs. Nothing happened. I left messages for Director and didn't not get called back until much later. Contacted the nurse in AL and she didn't take mom's temp or check her out. She just glanced at her. She said she could wait for tomorrow because it was a non-emergency. I asked for an ambulance to take her to the hospital. Mom was diagnosed with Acute COVID, Acute UTI and Cdiff (her temperature at the hospital was 103). The hospital contacted Starling 5 days later to let them know mom was being discharged. Starling refused to accept her back, even though her room was paid until the end of the month and her belongings were in the room. When I asked the DON she said "because you didn't tell us she had COVID." I told the DON I didn't know she had COVID. The DON said, "good luck" and slammed the phone down. Complaining does work because MC director works many facilities doesn't answer her phone and her messages are always full and The DON is rude and spiteful. Also, aids will take your wipes, diapers and washcloths to other patients rooms. I have seen several deaths of patients that shouldn't have happened because of their lack of care. Numerous patients on the Assisted Living left recently. The Ombudsman is there all the time because of complaints from patients and families. BTW there is no nurse assigned to MC only Assisted Living. She will come over only to give certain meds. They are usually short handed (lots of turnover) and I have sat in the common room numerous times with nobody in site. They have a abusive patient that attacks other patients. She will also defecate on the floor of other patients rooms. They do NOTHING about it. If care for your loved one is important, DO NOT take them to Starling at Nocatee. They will tell you anything to get you in there and then you will find out they lie. Look at the honest reviews on YELP. Ask to see the reports on them from the OMBUDSMAN.

I've had the pleasure of doing some work for Starling, and they are absolutely amazing. The grounds are beautiful and the staff really love caring for the residents.

What families highlight

  • Compassionate and attentive caregiving staff
  • Responsive and proactive leadership
  • Personalized nursing and memory-care coordination
  • Restaurant-style dining with varied menus
  • Skilled culinary team and attentive wait staff

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Location & neighborhood

999 Crosswater Pkwy, Ponte Vedra, FL 32081
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